I am currently living in a Asian country. To be honest we have a very diverse culture where people from different religions and races live together in harmony. I have lots of friends from lots of different cultures and I base this post on some of the girls I know (from different cultures) and their attitude towards love.
People are different. we do not like the same thing in life.. I like red and you like yellow and that's the way it is. there is a friend of mine who wants a rough man as a husband, she wants her husband to be dominant, tells her what to do and manages her stuff. Well once she told us that requirement the other girls in our gang was very pleased to hear that. I was thinking "hmm.. well doesn't she want the freedom that she always looking for?" This particular girl happens to be a very open person who loves excitement and exploring new things and at the same time she wants a dominant man who manages her life.. well in Asia if you are getting such a man you do not just get a man you get a package..
This package includes he telling you what to wear.. what to do and not to do.. not to go to the office.. not to talk to that person why are talking that person.. so on and so forth. In world which we think with computers and deals with people from space I know as a fact that girls are killed by their husbands for the value of her dowry in India. And I am surprised why that girls still tend to fall for people with aggressive dominant personality.
Check the story of the dowry death cases in India
In India girls are killed every day for the dowry issues, most of these murders are done by the mother in law's and the husbands.. the police is a.. lets not talk about it. I heard a story from a friend of mine who is studying in a Indian university about a girl from India which happened to be a classmate of him. This girl was married few months back and she was killed brutally by burning.. by her In-Laws..
All the girls refer to me as someone like a little child and they always tend to say that "you are too mild.. be a strong man.." well that depends on the definition that they give for the phrase "Strong man" . Does the strength lie on the power of a man to control his wife's deeds? Thank god that am not in India to see the things happening there. Especially in relation to marriage, the mindset of the people are very very different. Indians happen to be very very good people in the eyes of us and after seeing all these news regarding the rape cases and the dowry deaths now I feel disgust.
Its not a religion or rules which controls people. Its the mentality and the discipline which comes from within.
People are different. we do not like the same thing in life.. I like red and you like yellow and that's the way it is. there is a friend of mine who wants a rough man as a husband, she wants her husband to be dominant, tells her what to do and manages her stuff. Well once she told us that requirement the other girls in our gang was very pleased to hear that. I was thinking "hmm.. well doesn't she want the freedom that she always looking for?" This particular girl happens to be a very open person who loves excitement and exploring new things and at the same time she wants a dominant man who manages her life.. well in Asia if you are getting such a man you do not just get a man you get a package..
This package includes he telling you what to wear.. what to do and not to do.. not to go to the office.. not to talk to that person why are talking that person.. so on and so forth. In world which we think with computers and deals with people from space I know as a fact that girls are killed by their husbands for the value of her dowry in India. And I am surprised why that girls still tend to fall for people with aggressive dominant personality.
Check the story of the dowry death cases in India
All the girls refer to me as someone like a little child and they always tend to say that "you are too mild.. be a strong man.." well that depends on the definition that they give for the phrase "Strong man" . Does the strength lie on the power of a man to control his wife's deeds? Thank god that am not in India to see the things happening there. Especially in relation to marriage, the mindset of the people are very very different. Indians happen to be very very good people in the eyes of us and after seeing all these news regarding the rape cases and the dowry deaths now I feel disgust.
Its not a religion or rules which controls people. Its the mentality and the discipline which comes from within.
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